My sister is quiting her job. she is a chef at the restaurant for 3 eyars and she does all the work very good but the people there are not treating her good and the boss is very 2 faced and unfair. The boss never pays the vacation paychecks until u ask for them, and even monthly paychecks sometimes bounce.
now she is quiting and she doesn't know what papars seh has to get from her boss to certify her leaving and what else does she have a right to receive? the last payment, the payment for the next 2 weeks? the vacation paycheck for this year, a paycheck for the health injuries she got(lifting up heavy meat)?
please share what you know about this and give any advice. thanx
What do you need to get from the boss when quitting the job?
Her pay, her 4%, her separation papers, any letters of recommendation. She can ask at the unemployment office what she can do next. She can also take her case and any complaints ,money owed, back pay, to the labour offices. They will advise her of her rights.
Reply:From your sister: a letter of resignation with 2 weeks notice, depending on states, provinces.
From the boss:
- A final pay cheque with all outstanding wages owned by the boss.
- All vacation pay - by law, they have to be paid to your sister.
- Record of employment paper - to apply for unemployment insurance as needed.
- A letter of Reference - good, use it. If not, keep it away.
Please check out the local labor law office for more information.
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Reply:i dont think she needs anything when you quit. when she fills out a new app maybe she can just put that she felt she was being mis treated they should give her her pay for the time she worked . and it varies about the vacation pay some places will give it some wont
Reply:She should give a letter to her boss stating that she is resigning her position in two weeks. This is standard notice of leaving. She should also ask in that same letter for two letters of reference (duplicates). This is very normal and should be granted even if she has issues with the boss. She should be paid for the last two weeks and when she finishes those weeks she should be paid vacation pay and health injury pay (if still owing). Basically she should be totally squared up on her last day or know that the money will be deposited on a given day (if direct deposit).
Monday, May 4, 2009
Guy Problems?
I've ben dating my mand for 4 eyars now. We recenttly took a 2 month break because we would argue alot. We jsut got back togetehr 1 week ago and things seem like they are the same. When we argue he screams at me raising hsi voice and uses the "F" word alot. I Feel like i piss him off very easily. Before- if he didn't like something he would go along with it and said whatever. Now- he yells at me and expects me not to defend myself. He told me he's seeing someone else jsut to piss me of. A while a go he called me and left several messages saying he's sorryf or acting like a jerk and telling me those things and that he had told me these things because he wanted to get a reaction out of me. In reality he REALLY hurt my feelings. What should i do???I love him very much but- i can't put up with this kind of treatment. I feel like i deserve better. One reason why i won't move on is because he's never cheated on me and really believe he never will. He's one of those faithfull one
Guy Problems?
Being faithful isn't the only things a relationship is about. You have to respect each other. There are definitely a lot or reasons to break up, not just one. He needs to get his anger under control because he sounds half way dangerous to you. I would cut your losses and leave. I know you've invested a lot of time and energy into him but you do deserve better. Just tell him you're tired of fighting and that though you'll always care for him you can't go on living your life like this. You guys just aren't compatible, even if you do love each other.
Reply:You really need to put your child FIRST and not what YOU want. Do you really think that this is a healthy situation for the child to be in? The situation with you the BF won't change...and how do you know he doesn't have someone else? He might well have but you don't want to accept it.
Also, why do you feel you must have a man in your child's life? He is better off with just you than you and some abuser.
Reply:If I was you I would get off *** an yell back. Show him what you don't like. Don't let him lower your self-esteem. Don't show him whose boss, just let him know that you have say so in this relationship to.
Reply:YOUR FEELING IS RIGHT YOU DO DESERVE BETTER. HE IS VERBALLY ABUSING YOU, RIGHT UP THERE WITH CHEATING. IT IS NOT BETTER. VERBAL TURNS TO PHYSICAL. PROTECT YOU AND YOUR CHILD. MAKE THE HARDEST DESICIONS OF YOUR LIFE. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:This guy really needs some anger management classes if you barely do anything to piss him off. If he doesn't get help, the arguments could escalate into physical violence. True love or not, you cannot put yourself in harm's way. Help him find help, and then move on. No man is worth risking your life for.
Reply:Best Answer
You like the BAD BOY JERKS that treat you like s h i t so you can have something to talk about with your friends. Just keep playing the game with him until he decideds to settle down with you and get married.
Reply:No one deserves to be treated that way. My suggestion is that he go to counseling. After he goes to a couple of sessions, maybe you could both go together.
Reply:Get busy with your own life, being alone isn't so bad....I would rather deal with my own company than waste my energy screaming and fighting and bs allllll the time....for what?
know what I mean jellybean?
Reply:NO ENTIENDO?
Reply:I'm in a similar relationship right now, my husband is very tough but he doesn't beat me and definitely doesn't cheat on me he doesn't believe in it.but believe me i was in your shoes and i wish i didn't move on.it hurts to admit Cos relatively its not so bad but at the same time it could have been better..you will do a lot of sacrificing and will be hurt you and your child.believe me that percent of the good times you are having with him now will decrease by the days so it is not worth it!
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Guy Problems?
Being faithful isn't the only things a relationship is about. You have to respect each other. There are definitely a lot or reasons to break up, not just one. He needs to get his anger under control because he sounds half way dangerous to you. I would cut your losses and leave. I know you've invested a lot of time and energy into him but you do deserve better. Just tell him you're tired of fighting and that though you'll always care for him you can't go on living your life like this. You guys just aren't compatible, even if you do love each other.
Reply:You really need to put your child FIRST and not what YOU want. Do you really think that this is a healthy situation for the child to be in? The situation with you the BF won't change...and how do you know he doesn't have someone else? He might well have but you don't want to accept it.
Also, why do you feel you must have a man in your child's life? He is better off with just you than you and some abuser.
Reply:If I was you I would get off *** an yell back. Show him what you don't like. Don't let him lower your self-esteem. Don't show him whose boss, just let him know that you have say so in this relationship to.
Reply:YOUR FEELING IS RIGHT YOU DO DESERVE BETTER. HE IS VERBALLY ABUSING YOU, RIGHT UP THERE WITH CHEATING. IT IS NOT BETTER. VERBAL TURNS TO PHYSICAL. PROTECT YOU AND YOUR CHILD. MAKE THE HARDEST DESICIONS OF YOUR LIFE. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:This guy really needs some anger management classes if you barely do anything to piss him off. If he doesn't get help, the arguments could escalate into physical violence. True love or not, you cannot put yourself in harm's way. Help him find help, and then move on. No man is worth risking your life for.
Reply:Best Answer
You like the BAD BOY JERKS that treat you like s h i t so you can have something to talk about with your friends. Just keep playing the game with him until he decideds to settle down with you and get married.
Reply:No one deserves to be treated that way. My suggestion is that he go to counseling. After he goes to a couple of sessions, maybe you could both go together.
Reply:Get busy with your own life, being alone isn't so bad....I would rather deal with my own company than waste my energy screaming and fighting and bs allllll the time....for what?
know what I mean jellybean?
Reply:NO ENTIENDO?
Reply:I'm in a similar relationship right now, my husband is very tough but he doesn't beat me and definitely doesn't cheat on me he doesn't believe in it.but believe me i was in your shoes and i wish i didn't move on.it hurts to admit Cos relatively its not so bad but at the same time it could have been better..you will do a lot of sacrificing and will be hurt you and your child.believe me that percent of the good times you are having with him now will decrease by the days so it is not worth it!
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Help me please?
I have loved this girl for 3 eyars now. We dated early for about a year and we broke up. We are in close contact and still mess around. I would love to get back with her but she is young and has told me a relationship right now is not what she needs. Do I give up? or wait for the girl of my dreams?
Help me please?
Listen to what she is telling you bro. She needs some space.....so for now, enjoy the booty, and when she is ready to get serious, you're in. Don't give up, be patient and listen
Reply:Go on about your life for now, because if it is meant to be than it is going to happen regardless.
Reply:ask her if when shes ready to ate will she pick you and that's how you know if ou need to wait or move on
Reply:well... if ya love the gurl soo much then wait yeah if mite take a while but time passes! wait for her its the best thing to do -k-!!!
Reply:give it up. look, she's not available; why beat a dead horse. go find someone new.
Reply:if u think she is the one for u and while ur waiting she wont mess around then wait for her.but if u know she will be doing whatever she wants and ur the only one who is waiting for her then it really doesnt make alot of sense to me.
Reply:Personally my friend life is too short to keep trying if she's said not now well you can't be expected to wait until she's ready...move on and maybe you'll find the women of your dreams or this girl will wake up once she knows what she's lost...
Reply:if u really love her wait for ur time.. if not.. then why waste time for that..
Reply:how old are each of you? regardless, she obviously does not feel the same way about you, if you are indeed in love, you need to extract her from your life while you move on and get over her...maybe you can return to being friends once your romantic feelings subside
Reply:give the girl some space maybe that is what she wants. maybe she dont want to be with someone right now. she is young and maybe she just wants to enjoy her life for awhile. give her time to think and if she still feels the same for u then trust me she will come back to ya. for now let it be and dont talk about it unless she wants to. and tell her you will respect the chosen that she makes. and tell her you`ll always be there for her no matter what.
Reply:Well sounds to me that you already have her, just not in the ways and terms that YOU want. Think about what is best for the relationship that you do have now to last, and do that. If you really like her so much, then keep doing what you're doing, and wait for her to say that she's ready for that commitment to you.
Reply:Wait for her. you'll be glad you did or ask her this question and see her intentions.
Reply:I'm probably one of the few woman that will tell you to continue to mess around with her (if you can keep your heart from being hurt). But, look around for a new woman. I'm sure there are plenty of woman out there that would be happy to be involved in a relationship with a guy like you. There are a lot of people out there that you can be happy with. just gotta give them a chance. One question.....why do you want a relationship with a girl who only wants friendship sex?
Reply:keep messing around ... and look for another girl at the same time
Reply:if she is worth waiting for, wait for her!
Reply:If she is the girl of you're dreams YOU WAIT FOR HER!
Shes still young remember, the most important things in life are taken slow. Don't give up yet.
Reply:well if u love her that much i would wait for the girl and see what happens keep her as a friend, do what your heart tells you what to do, i moved to texas to be with someone and it was the best thing i ever did
Reply:do what your heart says.
Reply:here i am going to put my gurl friend on her to tell you what you schould do ok
hello i think that she wants to be with you and she may just found the out and it scared her to know she fell in love with you andi think that you schould wait for her and help her with the stuff that is confuseing her with all this and dont push her to do anything she dont want to do ok i hope she comes out of it and comes back to you
jessica
man you should take her advices she is good on that stuff why do you think i am still around:)
Reply:do you really love her? because if you do then you should be willing to wait for her
Help me please?
Listen to what she is telling you bro. She needs some space.....so for now, enjoy the booty, and when she is ready to get serious, you're in. Don't give up, be patient and listen
Reply:Go on about your life for now, because if it is meant to be than it is going to happen regardless.
Reply:ask her if when shes ready to ate will she pick you and that's how you know if ou need to wait or move on
Reply:well... if ya love the gurl soo much then wait yeah if mite take a while but time passes! wait for her its the best thing to do -k-!!!
Reply:give it up. look, she's not available; why beat a dead horse. go find someone new.
Reply:if u think she is the one for u and while ur waiting she wont mess around then wait for her.but if u know she will be doing whatever she wants and ur the only one who is waiting for her then it really doesnt make alot of sense to me.
Reply:Personally my friend life is too short to keep trying if she's said not now well you can't be expected to wait until she's ready...move on and maybe you'll find the women of your dreams or this girl will wake up once she knows what she's lost...
Reply:if u really love her wait for ur time.. if not.. then why waste time for that..
Reply:how old are each of you? regardless, she obviously does not feel the same way about you, if you are indeed in love, you need to extract her from your life while you move on and get over her...maybe you can return to being friends once your romantic feelings subside
Reply:give the girl some space maybe that is what she wants. maybe she dont want to be with someone right now. she is young and maybe she just wants to enjoy her life for awhile. give her time to think and if she still feels the same for u then trust me she will come back to ya. for now let it be and dont talk about it unless she wants to. and tell her you will respect the chosen that she makes. and tell her you`ll always be there for her no matter what.
Reply:Well sounds to me that you already have her, just not in the ways and terms that YOU want. Think about what is best for the relationship that you do have now to last, and do that. If you really like her so much, then keep doing what you're doing, and wait for her to say that she's ready for that commitment to you.
Reply:Wait for her. you'll be glad you did or ask her this question and see her intentions.
Reply:I'm probably one of the few woman that will tell you to continue to mess around with her (if you can keep your heart from being hurt). But, look around for a new woman. I'm sure there are plenty of woman out there that would be happy to be involved in a relationship with a guy like you. There are a lot of people out there that you can be happy with. just gotta give them a chance. One question.....why do you want a relationship with a girl who only wants friendship sex?
Reply:keep messing around ... and look for another girl at the same time
Reply:if she is worth waiting for, wait for her!
Reply:If she is the girl of you're dreams YOU WAIT FOR HER!
Shes still young remember, the most important things in life are taken slow. Don't give up yet.
Reply:well if u love her that much i would wait for the girl and see what happens keep her as a friend, do what your heart tells you what to do, i moved to texas to be with someone and it was the best thing i ever did
Reply:do what your heart says.
Reply:here i am going to put my gurl friend on her to tell you what you schould do ok
hello i think that she wants to be with you and she may just found the out and it scared her to know she fell in love with you andi think that you schould wait for her and help her with the stuff that is confuseing her with all this and dont push her to do anything she dont want to do ok i hope she comes out of it and comes back to you
jessica
man you should take her advices she is good on that stuff why do you think i am still around:)
Reply:do you really love her? because if you do then you should be willing to wait for her
Should I give this guy a chance?
He is one of my best friends and we have known each other for three eyars now.. At one point or another we have liked each other but nto at the same time.. Now hes single and im single and the other day he told me that when i was ready for a boyfriend to let him know... Should i give him a chance or not..I mean with his other girlfriends he has cheated on them(with me and other girls)...they argue all the time...I like him and i am the only person he doesnt fight with at all. But if it doesnt work out i dont want us to not talk ever again( he always has bad break-ups)
Should I give this guy a chance?
N-O
Reply:It would be best to avoid the situation altogether for the same reasons you explained in your details. So what if you found somebody else.
Reply:wait a bit, see what happens. It all is in your heart. only if you feel it is right. I would say go for it, but then again, are your willing enough to put your friendship on the line. your friendship will grow stronger if you do give him a chance.
Reply:sure, and cheat on him
Reply:what will you regret more? losing a friend or not having him as a bf?
Reply:these people are cruel some of them give him a chance if you feel it in your heart and you can trust him enough not to cheat maybe he just didnt have the courage to break up beacuae he didnt feel a spark
Reply:It's a bad situation. Get away from the whole thing.
Reply:uh it best to stay away from that
Reply:dont even give hima chance girl you know your way better than that. if he'll cheat on one girl whats gonna stop him from cheating on you and dont say he wouldnt cause we all kniw he would! I think ya'll should just stay friends I know what your going through cause i went throught the exact thing its so hard but youll be makeing a good desision and im still friends with him too.
Reply:GIVE IT A GO GIRL
Reply:Why are you friends with someone who has used you to cheat on his girlfriends? Grow up and get a backbone. Not only should you not be with him, you should dump him as a friend!
NO CHANCE FOR THE CHEATER!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:IF YALL ARE BEST FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW EACH OTHER WELL. THAT IS THE START OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP-GETTING TO KNOW THE PERSON. I WOULD BE A LITTLE SCARED IF HES CHEATED ON ALL HIS OTHER GIRLS BUT THATS A CALL YOU HAVE TO MAKE. DO YOU THINK IT IS WORTH A TRY? AND AS FAR AS NOT WANTING TO BREAK UP AND NEVER SPEAK AGAIN, IF YALL ARE TRUE FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS, YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW THE LIMIT TO TAKE IT TO. BUT YOULL ALWAYS BE FRIENDS.
Reply:i think if it dont work out.......then u will lose that friendship you had .it will never be the same.but at the same time if you dont give him a chance you will never know...for me i was in about the same situation as u but it was a little different. but if i had to do all over i would have kept the friendship i wouldnt have crossed the line , because now we lost what we had in a friendship. it will never be the same.u just lose what u had.u have to also concider that if he cheated on is girlfriend with u and others..just how do u know he wont cheat on u too?
Reply:This one is tricky. You need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can, and you feel in your heart that he is the one for you, than go for it. You first need to tell him all of your concerns up front and tell him you value his friendship and that you want that more than anything. A good relationship starts with being friends and friends is what should be had during the whole relationship.
Reply:give him a chance and if it doesn't work out tell him that u still want to be friends but if he cheats stick it to him
Reply:no get away
Reply:no because when u brake up u could lose your best friend and you would be single or he could just cheat on u like he did with his other girl friends
Reply:yes of course because we r all human beings not computers
Reply:i say give him a chance... life is too short to be thinking about anybody else... he probably cheated because he wasn't satisfied with something in the relationship... but be cautious.. even though, he is one of your best friends it doesn't change the fact the he is the opposite sex... don't give yourself too easily and win his trust.. if you give your trust too early is bound to make you heart-broken... coming from a friendship is the best way to pursue an actual relationship... if your friendship with him starts to go bad... being in a relationship wouldn't be the best way?...just 1 chance ;) xoxoxo
Reply:no,...................never date ur best friend,.u dont want to ruin the friendship
Reply:dont date friends !!!!!
Reply:girl, like they say, give love a chance.
it may be difficult for you to start as you may fear a failed relationship. think positive. it may hurt but you emerged stronger. of course all this all if you enter the relationship.
but like you say, he is one of your best friends. so if you need emotional support there are others you can count. and if the relationship work out, lucky you! a best/boy friend!
a rare combination indeed. till then the choice is up to you.
cheers.
Reply:usually people dnt start a loving relation with friendship/but you being sexually with him while he was in a relation/and u dnt fight cause u have kept things real,without getting involved/if u both one try a relationship got 2commited before doing it and be specific of each others needs it might work/
Reply:give him a chance gal.
may u r the one he was actually looking for.
things may turn out to be good sweety.
if u trust him and u urself are very strong give the guy a chance.
Reply:give him a chance!
Reply:i think you can give it a shot... I have a boyfriend right now of 1 year and 1 month... we were very best friends and we were hanging out at a track meet and he asked me out. His breakups were always bad too but everything has been great and i was so scared on if it would ruin our friendship too. Just let him kno straight up that if it is going to ruin ur friendship you would rather be friends, but let him know you like him, but if it wont ruin it then go for it!! Good Luck!
Reply:it is really what you believer in your heart
Reply:belive,,,
Reply:go by what u think. if u really love him and think it can work then go for it but if not its not worth it bc there is nothing worse than a broken heart
Reply:too long but yeah do wat ever you want
Should I give this guy a chance?
N-O
Reply:It would be best to avoid the situation altogether for the same reasons you explained in your details. So what if you found somebody else.
Reply:wait a bit, see what happens. It all is in your heart. only if you feel it is right. I would say go for it, but then again, are your willing enough to put your friendship on the line. your friendship will grow stronger if you do give him a chance.
Reply:sure, and cheat on him
Reply:what will you regret more? losing a friend or not having him as a bf?
Reply:these people are cruel some of them give him a chance if you feel it in your heart and you can trust him enough not to cheat maybe he just didnt have the courage to break up beacuae he didnt feel a spark
Reply:It's a bad situation. Get away from the whole thing.
Reply:uh it best to stay away from that
Reply:dont even give hima chance girl you know your way better than that. if he'll cheat on one girl whats gonna stop him from cheating on you and dont say he wouldnt cause we all kniw he would! I think ya'll should just stay friends I know what your going through cause i went throught the exact thing its so hard but youll be makeing a good desision and im still friends with him too.
Reply:GIVE IT A GO GIRL
Reply:Why are you friends with someone who has used you to cheat on his girlfriends? Grow up and get a backbone. Not only should you not be with him, you should dump him as a friend!
NO CHANCE FOR THE CHEATER!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:IF YALL ARE BEST FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW EACH OTHER WELL. THAT IS THE START OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP-GETTING TO KNOW THE PERSON. I WOULD BE A LITTLE SCARED IF HES CHEATED ON ALL HIS OTHER GIRLS BUT THATS A CALL YOU HAVE TO MAKE. DO YOU THINK IT IS WORTH A TRY? AND AS FAR AS NOT WANTING TO BREAK UP AND NEVER SPEAK AGAIN, IF YALL ARE TRUE FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS, YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW THE LIMIT TO TAKE IT TO. BUT YOULL ALWAYS BE FRIENDS.
Reply:i think if it dont work out.......then u will lose that friendship you had .it will never be the same.but at the same time if you dont give him a chance you will never know...for me i was in about the same situation as u but it was a little different. but if i had to do all over i would have kept the friendship i wouldnt have crossed the line , because now we lost what we had in a friendship. it will never be the same.u just lose what u had.u have to also concider that if he cheated on is girlfriend with u and others..just how do u know he wont cheat on u too?
Reply:This one is tricky. You need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can, and you feel in your heart that he is the one for you, than go for it. You first need to tell him all of your concerns up front and tell him you value his friendship and that you want that more than anything. A good relationship starts with being friends and friends is what should be had during the whole relationship.
Reply:give him a chance and if it doesn't work out tell him that u still want to be friends but if he cheats stick it to him
Reply:no get away
Reply:no because when u brake up u could lose your best friend and you would be single or he could just cheat on u like he did with his other girl friends
Reply:yes of course because we r all human beings not computers
Reply:i say give him a chance... life is too short to be thinking about anybody else... he probably cheated because he wasn't satisfied with something in the relationship... but be cautious.. even though, he is one of your best friends it doesn't change the fact the he is the opposite sex... don't give yourself too easily and win his trust.. if you give your trust too early is bound to make you heart-broken... coming from a friendship is the best way to pursue an actual relationship... if your friendship with him starts to go bad... being in a relationship wouldn't be the best way?...just 1 chance ;) xoxoxo
Reply:no,...................never date ur best friend,.u dont want to ruin the friendship
Reply:dont date friends !!!!!
Reply:girl, like they say, give love a chance.
it may be difficult for you to start as you may fear a failed relationship. think positive. it may hurt but you emerged stronger. of course all this all if you enter the relationship.
but like you say, he is one of your best friends. so if you need emotional support there are others you can count. and if the relationship work out, lucky you! a best/boy friend!
a rare combination indeed. till then the choice is up to you.
cheers.
Reply:usually people dnt start a loving relation with friendship/but you being sexually with him while he was in a relation/and u dnt fight cause u have kept things real,without getting involved/if u both one try a relationship got 2commited before doing it and be specific of each others needs it might work/
Reply:give him a chance gal.
may u r the one he was actually looking for.
things may turn out to be good sweety.
if u trust him and u urself are very strong give the guy a chance.
Reply:give him a chance!
Reply:i think you can give it a shot... I have a boyfriend right now of 1 year and 1 month... we were very best friends and we were hanging out at a track meet and he asked me out. His breakups were always bad too but everything has been great and i was so scared on if it would ruin our friendship too. Just let him kno straight up that if it is going to ruin ur friendship you would rather be friends, but let him know you like him, but if it wont ruin it then go for it!! Good Luck!
Reply:it is really what you believer in your heart
Reply:belive,,,
Reply:go by what u think. if u really love him and think it can work then go for it but if not its not worth it bc there is nothing worse than a broken heart
Reply:too long but yeah do wat ever you want
Is christianty paulism?
The True Founder of Christianity
The teachings of Paul, the true founder of Christianity, cannot be found anywhere in the teachings of Jesus or in those of prophets before him.
The following are some of the innovations that Paul introduced into "his" religion of Christianity.
1. The divinity of Jesus
2. The trinity
3. Atonement
4. Salvation by faith
it seems as though jesus was born and died like millions of people. maybe he was special maybe not. there were plenty of people who had special abilities in the past that wernt god. the point is chriostianity was formed after his death. it wasnt his religion it was pauls. paul just created a religion based on his acount of a man who died many eyars before him
***- credit goes to one of the members on this site with a nickname like a27z or something like that for asking some key questions
Is christianty paulism?
I read a27z's answer to your previous question, and it seems to me that you aren't looking for answers, you're only looking for people to agree with you. This is a sad state of affairs.
Paul did not create Christianity. He did not invent the divinity of Jesus, the Trinity, the Atonement or Salvation by faith.
Jesus, Himself, indicated His own divinity on numerous occasions.
For instance, when Peter said "You are the anointed son of God", Jesus said "You are right."
When the crowds wanted to stone Jesus, and he asked WHY, they said that it was because he claimed equlity with God.
When Jesus was on trial, the high priest asked him, "Are you the son of God?" Jesus said "yes!"
John 1:1 says that "in the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God" ... (v14) "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us and we beheld His glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth."
The book of revelations, written by John the beloved while exiled on the island of Patmos, indicated that Jesus is "the First and the Last, the Beginning and the Ending", just as God (Jehovah, if you please) said in Isaiah.
Paul's conversion was recorded in the book of Acts, as written by Luke, the very same Luke that wrote one of the gospels, and Luke also pointed out that the divinity of Jesus.
The concept of the Trinity starts back in Genesis 1, when it says "B'raishish bara Elohim (not "Eloheinu") es ha'sh'mayim v'es ho'oretz" - "In the beginning Elohim (God, pleural, not God singular) created the heavens and the earth." Farther down, it says, "And God (Elohim-pleural) said, 'Let US make man in OUR image, after OUR likeness'."
Atonement by the blood of a sacrificial lamb was presented in the Law as "a shadow of better things to come", and when John baptized Jesus, he cried out, "Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world."
Salvation is always by faith. "Abraham BELIEVED God, and that was accounted to him for his righteousness."
Reply:in a word, "yes"
and in re "not taking credit" ... take it the
passive-aggressive way left-hand-self back-patting
Tao-of-the-guilt-trip
Pizzaboy, the scales have fallen from your eyes LOLOL
Reply:You need to do some more research.
Paul was an apostle of God.
True Christianity is central to the teachings of Jesus Christ.
The atonement for mans sins, came about through Jesus
CHrist's, death on Calvary's cross, His Burial,and resurrection
from the grave; not the apostle Paul.
Reply:Yes the Pauline nonsense replaced the teachings of Jesus and became the religion we know of today as Christianity.
Love and blessings Don
Reply:Paul did not teach the trinity.
Paul taught us to worship the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Please note that the context “of” is the same as “his God and Father”.
Please note that the context always makes the God and Father separate from Lord Jesus.
Jesus:
(John 17:3) 3 This means everlasting life, their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ.
Paul:
(Romans 15:5-6) 5 Now may the God who supplies endurance and comfort grant YOU to have among yourselves the same mental attitude that Christ Jesus had, 6 that with one accord YOU may with one mouth glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
(1 Corinthians 15:24) 24 Next, the end, when he hands over the kingdom to his God and Father, when he has brought to nothing all government and all authority and power.
(2 Corinthians 1:3) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort,
(2 Corinthians 11:31) 31 The God and Father of the Lord Jesus, even the One who is to be praised forever, knows I am not lying.
(Galatians 1:3-5) 3 May YOU have undeserved kindness and peace from God our Father and [the] Lord Jesus Christ. 4 He gave himself for our sins that he might deliver us from the present wicked system of things according to the will of our God and Father, 5 to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen.
(Ephesians 1:3) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, for he has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in union with Christ,
(Ephesians 1:17) 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give YOU a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the accurate knowledge of him;
(Ephesians 4:6) 6 one God and Father of all [persons], who is over all and through all and in all.
(Ephesians 5:20) 20 in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ giving thanks always for all things to our God and Father.
(Philippians 4:20) 20 Now to our God and Father be the glory forever and ever. Amen.
(1 Thessalonians 1:3-4) 3 for we bear incessantly in mind YOUR faithful work and [your] loving labor and [your] endurance due to [your] hope in our Lord Jesus Christ before our God and Father. 4 For we know, brothers loved by God, his choosing of YOU,
(1 Thessalonians 3:11-13) 11 Now may our God and Father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way prosperously to YOU. 12 Moreover, may the Lord cause YOU to increase, yes, make YOU abound, in love to one another and to all, even as we also do to YOU; 13 to the end that he may make YOUR hearts firm, unblamable in holiness before our God and Father at the presence of our Lord Jesus with all his holy ones.
James:
(James 1:27) 27 The form of worship that is clean and undefiled from the standpoint of our God and Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their tribulation, and to keep oneself without spot from the world.
Peter:
(1 Peter 1:3-4) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, for according to his great mercy he gave us a new birth to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 to an incorruptible and undefiled and unfading inheritance. It is reserved in the heavens for YOU,
John:
(Revelation 1:5-6) 1 A revelation by Jesus Christ, which God gave him, to show his slaves the things that must shortly take place. And he sent forth his angel and presented [it] in signs through him to his slave John, 5 . . .To him that loves us and that loosed us from our sins by means of his own blood— 6 and he made us to be a kingdom, priests to his God and Father—yes, to him be the glory and the might forever. Amen.
Jesus, Paul, James, Peter and John all taught the same.
As to Atonement and Salvation, You are mislead about these also.
.
Reply:You seem to have missed a few Gospel passages:
Mark 14:62 And Jesus said, I AM: and ye shall see the Son of man sitting on the right hand of power, and coming in the clouds of heaven. :63 Then the high priest rent his clothes, and saith, What need we any further witnesses? :64 Ye have heard the blasphemy:...
John 8:19 Then they said unto Him, Where is thy Father? Jesus answered, Ye neither know me, nor my Father: if ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also. 20 These words spake Jesus in the treasurey, as he taught in the temple: and no man laid hands on him; for his hour was not yet come.
John 8:24, "Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for unless you believe that I AM, you will die in your sins."
John 8:58 Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I AM.
Reply:Non-sense! All this Anti-Christian stuff is garbage and bad history.
Reply:While I am not a Christian, I agree that the non-Trinitarian view of God seems more sensible. You might want to look at the non-Trinitarian versions of Christianity.
I would suggest looking into these Christian churches which are all non-Trinitarian: Jehovah's Witnesses, Christadelphians, Bible Students, American Unitarian Conference, Arian Catholic Church, Oneness Pentecostal, UU Christian Fellowship, etc. Swedenborgianism (look up Swedenborg on Wikipedia) was also non-Trinitarian. Perhaps one of these may speak to your condition. You can find all of them doing an online search.
While it is true that LDS Mormons do not believe in the Trinity, they have a doctrine of Godhead and eternal progression which is more polytheistic than monotheistic.
Reply:In a single word, Yes
Without Paul Christianity would have likely been a small Jewish sect that would have likely died out just as the Sadducees did.
Reply:Ijust have a question, then:
Did PAUL die for our sins, or did Christ?
I never see Paul promoting himself, but I DO see him giving ALL credit to Jesus.
Reply:You need to go back and read the whole Bible every word you have missed a lot.
Reply:It is quite funny that Paul would be the creator of a religion of people he persecuted and killed before converting himself.
Reply:Yes all these are true facts...but no christian will accept it..
they are brain washed from their young age and even if they know that their religion is a construct of all false ideas %26amp; beliefs, they still keep propagating those things and keep saying theirs is the only truth...
pity jesus, for he has become the reason for destroying centuries and centuries old of civilization and bring in a way of life which is completely intolerant and doesnt suit humanity to meet its actual final goal.
No religion is false, its like going from truth to higher truth...
our life is a constant search for truth..
but every religion has false ideas and beliefs..that was made over time...
its really bad that christians only follow the false ideas and beliefs and leave away the truth behind their religion.
Reply:No Christianity is following Jesus. Jesus picked his disciples and spent years teaching them and preparing them for life without him. Paul (Saul) killed Christians until he accepted Jesus. Paul spent the rest of his life working for Christ. Christianity is faith in God thought Jesus, not in Paul.
Reply:It was started by Jesus Himself. He sent His disciples out to preach the gospel. It wasn't started by Paul, or Peter, or Constantine. It was started by Jesus. That's the very reason He came. He came to die for our sins. It was GOD'S plan of salvation, not Paul's, not Peter's. GOD'S!
Paul was selected by Jesus Himself to spread the Word. Paul didn't go looking for it. He was killing Christian's for crying out loud. It was Jesus who stopped him on that road, and blinded him, and then showed him the LIGHT. Paul didn't make this stuff up. The Bible is the inspired word of God. It speaks the truth, and that's all it can do, because it comes from God. You can question it all you want, but I know the truth, and so do all true believers in the Lord Jesus Christ.
It isn't "Paul's" religion. It's Jesus' Truth. God Bless
Reply:In my opinion it is Paulism. He had quite an agenda and he was a spy. Like I've always said. Xianity was an ingenious plan. It has destroyed the will of the people and kept them in a prison of their own making.
Reply:Pizzaboy, you really need to study the Bible yourself, with prayer, asking for wisdom, knowledge and understanding of the will of God.
God be with you,
William, a bond-servant of Jesus
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Reply:Well, don't forget that a lot of it is also Augustiniaism.
So blend Paulism with Augustinianism and there ya have it.
Reply:I would recommend you to please log on to metahistroy.org and read the works of John Lash on Gnosticism before you come to any conclusion in this regard. But visit this site with an open mind and it can change your views forever.
Reply:Yes. Christianity could have come into being without Jesus, but never without Paul.
The teachings of Paul, the true founder of Christianity, cannot be found anywhere in the teachings of Jesus or in those of prophets before him.
The following are some of the innovations that Paul introduced into "his" religion of Christianity.
1. The divinity of Jesus
2. The trinity
3. Atonement
4. Salvation by faith
it seems as though jesus was born and died like millions of people. maybe he was special maybe not. there were plenty of people who had special abilities in the past that wernt god. the point is chriostianity was formed after his death. it wasnt his religion it was pauls. paul just created a religion based on his acount of a man who died many eyars before him
***- credit goes to one of the members on this site with a nickname like a27z or something like that for asking some key questions
Is christianty paulism?
I read a27z's answer to your previous question, and it seems to me that you aren't looking for answers, you're only looking for people to agree with you. This is a sad state of affairs.
Paul did not create Christianity. He did not invent the divinity of Jesus, the Trinity, the Atonement or Salvation by faith.
Jesus, Himself, indicated His own divinity on numerous occasions.
For instance, when Peter said "You are the anointed son of God", Jesus said "You are right."
When the crowds wanted to stone Jesus, and he asked WHY, they said that it was because he claimed equlity with God.
When Jesus was on trial, the high priest asked him, "Are you the son of God?" Jesus said "yes!"
John 1:1 says that "in the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God" ... (v14) "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us and we beheld His glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth."
The book of revelations, written by John the beloved while exiled on the island of Patmos, indicated that Jesus is "the First and the Last, the Beginning and the Ending", just as God (Jehovah, if you please) said in Isaiah.
Paul's conversion was recorded in the book of Acts, as written by Luke, the very same Luke that wrote one of the gospels, and Luke also pointed out that the divinity of Jesus.
The concept of the Trinity starts back in Genesis 1, when it says "B'raishish bara Elohim (not "Eloheinu") es ha'sh'mayim v'es ho'oretz" - "In the beginning Elohim (God, pleural, not God singular) created the heavens and the earth." Farther down, it says, "And God (Elohim-pleural) said, 'Let US make man in OUR image, after OUR likeness'."
Atonement by the blood of a sacrificial lamb was presented in the Law as "a shadow of better things to come", and when John baptized Jesus, he cried out, "Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world."
Salvation is always by faith. "Abraham BELIEVED God, and that was accounted to him for his righteousness."
Reply:in a word, "yes"
and in re "not taking credit" ... take it the
passive-aggressive way left-hand-self back-patting
Tao-of-the-guilt-trip
Pizzaboy, the scales have fallen from your eyes LOLOL
Reply:You need to do some more research.
Paul was an apostle of God.
True Christianity is central to the teachings of Jesus Christ.
The atonement for mans sins, came about through Jesus
CHrist's, death on Calvary's cross, His Burial,and resurrection
from the grave; not the apostle Paul.
Reply:Yes the Pauline nonsense replaced the teachings of Jesus and became the religion we know of today as Christianity.
Love and blessings Don
Reply:Paul did not teach the trinity.
Paul taught us to worship the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Please note that the context “of” is the same as “his God and Father”.
Please note that the context always makes the God and Father separate from Lord Jesus.
Jesus:
(John 17:3) 3 This means everlasting life, their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ.
Paul:
(Romans 15:5-6) 5 Now may the God who supplies endurance and comfort grant YOU to have among yourselves the same mental attitude that Christ Jesus had, 6 that with one accord YOU may with one mouth glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
(1 Corinthians 15:24) 24 Next, the end, when he hands over the kingdom to his God and Father, when he has brought to nothing all government and all authority and power.
(2 Corinthians 1:3) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort,
(2 Corinthians 11:31) 31 The God and Father of the Lord Jesus, even the One who is to be praised forever, knows I am not lying.
(Galatians 1:3-5) 3 May YOU have undeserved kindness and peace from God our Father and [the] Lord Jesus Christ. 4 He gave himself for our sins that he might deliver us from the present wicked system of things according to the will of our God and Father, 5 to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen.
(Ephesians 1:3) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, for he has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in union with Christ,
(Ephesians 1:17) 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give YOU a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the accurate knowledge of him;
(Ephesians 4:6) 6 one God and Father of all [persons], who is over all and through all and in all.
(Ephesians 5:20) 20 in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ giving thanks always for all things to our God and Father.
(Philippians 4:20) 20 Now to our God and Father be the glory forever and ever. Amen.
(1 Thessalonians 1:3-4) 3 for we bear incessantly in mind YOUR faithful work and [your] loving labor and [your] endurance due to [your] hope in our Lord Jesus Christ before our God and Father. 4 For we know, brothers loved by God, his choosing of YOU,
(1 Thessalonians 3:11-13) 11 Now may our God and Father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way prosperously to YOU. 12 Moreover, may the Lord cause YOU to increase, yes, make YOU abound, in love to one another and to all, even as we also do to YOU; 13 to the end that he may make YOUR hearts firm, unblamable in holiness before our God and Father at the presence of our Lord Jesus with all his holy ones.
James:
(James 1:27) 27 The form of worship that is clean and undefiled from the standpoint of our God and Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their tribulation, and to keep oneself without spot from the world.
Peter:
(1 Peter 1:3-4) 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, for according to his great mercy he gave us a new birth to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 to an incorruptible and undefiled and unfading inheritance. It is reserved in the heavens for YOU,
John:
(Revelation 1:5-6) 1 A revelation by Jesus Christ, which God gave him, to show his slaves the things that must shortly take place. And he sent forth his angel and presented [it] in signs through him to his slave John, 5 . . .To him that loves us and that loosed us from our sins by means of his own blood— 6 and he made us to be a kingdom, priests to his God and Father—yes, to him be the glory and the might forever. Amen.
Jesus, Paul, James, Peter and John all taught the same.
As to Atonement and Salvation, You are mislead about these also.
.
Reply:You seem to have missed a few Gospel passages:
Mark 14:62 And Jesus said, I AM: and ye shall see the Son of man sitting on the right hand of power, and coming in the clouds of heaven. :63 Then the high priest rent his clothes, and saith, What need we any further witnesses? :64 Ye have heard the blasphemy:...
John 8:19 Then they said unto Him, Where is thy Father? Jesus answered, Ye neither know me, nor my Father: if ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also. 20 These words spake Jesus in the treasurey, as he taught in the temple: and no man laid hands on him; for his hour was not yet come.
John 8:24, "Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for unless you believe that I AM, you will die in your sins."
John 8:58 Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I AM.
Reply:Non-sense! All this Anti-Christian stuff is garbage and bad history.
Reply:While I am not a Christian, I agree that the non-Trinitarian view of God seems more sensible. You might want to look at the non-Trinitarian versions of Christianity.
I would suggest looking into these Christian churches which are all non-Trinitarian: Jehovah's Witnesses, Christadelphians, Bible Students, American Unitarian Conference, Arian Catholic Church, Oneness Pentecostal, UU Christian Fellowship, etc. Swedenborgianism (look up Swedenborg on Wikipedia) was also non-Trinitarian. Perhaps one of these may speak to your condition. You can find all of them doing an online search.
While it is true that LDS Mormons do not believe in the Trinity, they have a doctrine of Godhead and eternal progression which is more polytheistic than monotheistic.
Reply:In a single word, Yes
Without Paul Christianity would have likely been a small Jewish sect that would have likely died out just as the Sadducees did.
Reply:Ijust have a question, then:
Did PAUL die for our sins, or did Christ?
I never see Paul promoting himself, but I DO see him giving ALL credit to Jesus.
Reply:You need to go back and read the whole Bible every word you have missed a lot.
Reply:It is quite funny that Paul would be the creator of a religion of people he persecuted and killed before converting himself.
Reply:Yes all these are true facts...but no christian will accept it..
they are brain washed from their young age and even if they know that their religion is a construct of all false ideas %26amp; beliefs, they still keep propagating those things and keep saying theirs is the only truth...
pity jesus, for he has become the reason for destroying centuries and centuries old of civilization and bring in a way of life which is completely intolerant and doesnt suit humanity to meet its actual final goal.
No religion is false, its like going from truth to higher truth...
our life is a constant search for truth..
but every religion has false ideas and beliefs..that was made over time...
its really bad that christians only follow the false ideas and beliefs and leave away the truth behind their religion.
Reply:No Christianity is following Jesus. Jesus picked his disciples and spent years teaching them and preparing them for life without him. Paul (Saul) killed Christians until he accepted Jesus. Paul spent the rest of his life working for Christ. Christianity is faith in God thought Jesus, not in Paul.
Reply:It was started by Jesus Himself. He sent His disciples out to preach the gospel. It wasn't started by Paul, or Peter, or Constantine. It was started by Jesus. That's the very reason He came. He came to die for our sins. It was GOD'S plan of salvation, not Paul's, not Peter's. GOD'S!
Paul was selected by Jesus Himself to spread the Word. Paul didn't go looking for it. He was killing Christian's for crying out loud. It was Jesus who stopped him on that road, and blinded him, and then showed him the LIGHT. Paul didn't make this stuff up. The Bible is the inspired word of God. It speaks the truth, and that's all it can do, because it comes from God. You can question it all you want, but I know the truth, and so do all true believers in the Lord Jesus Christ.
It isn't "Paul's" religion. It's Jesus' Truth. God Bless
Reply:In my opinion it is Paulism. He had quite an agenda and he was a spy. Like I've always said. Xianity was an ingenious plan. It has destroyed the will of the people and kept them in a prison of their own making.
Reply:Pizzaboy, you really need to study the Bible yourself, with prayer, asking for wisdom, knowledge and understanding of the will of God.
God be with you,
William, a bond-servant of Jesus
%26lt;'(((%26gt;%26lt;
Reply:Well, don't forget that a lot of it is also Augustiniaism.
So blend Paulism with Augustinianism and there ya have it.
Reply:I would recommend you to please log on to metahistroy.org and read the works of John Lash on Gnosticism before you come to any conclusion in this regard. But visit this site with an open mind and it can change your views forever.
Reply:Yes. Christianity could have come into being without Jesus, but never without Paul.
Nurse or Vet Nurse?
Should i become a vet nurse/assistant or a people nurse?
Which gets paid better?
and how many eyars do i have to be in college for a people nurse and a vet nurse?
which do you think is better?
Nurse or Vet Nurse?
I think it depends on what your interests are. If you love working with animals or people.
Nursing careers dealing with humans would likely pay more in most areas but wouldn't necessarily be as rewarding for someone that prefers caring for animals.
teeth pictures
Which gets paid better?
and how many eyars do i have to be in college for a people nurse and a vet nurse?
which do you think is better?
Nurse or Vet Nurse?
I think it depends on what your interests are. If you love working with animals or people.
Nursing careers dealing with humans would likely pay more in most areas but wouldn't necessarily be as rewarding for someone that prefers caring for animals.
teeth pictures
I am bulgarian and I heve wriths to work in u.k?
I AM GOING TO U.K ABOUT THE FOR WORK SO PLS. TELL ME I HEVE WRITHS TO WORK IN U.K AND HOW MANY EYARS THE GIVE ME RESIDAT IN U.K PARMENENT OUR TEMPRAL THNK'S AND GOD BLESS YOU.
I am bulgarian and I heve wriths to work in u.k?
You don't have an automatic right to work in the UK. Work permits from Bulgaria and Romania are restricted, even though you are now part of the EU.
You must read the UK government information before you make any decision:
http://workingintheuk.gov.uk/working_in_...
In any event, there are no jobs in the UK.
Reply:i will write your question you re post it
cancel that i cant decipher it
Reply:As you are a member of the EU you have the right to move here and work here for as long as you wish. However as you are from Bulgaria you have to gain permission to work, this will involve proving that you have a job and that it will be benificial to the UK for you to work and you wont be taking a job from a british national.
You should contact your local council to enquire how you go about getting permission to work
Reply:Zdraveite! You have no automatic right to work in the UK, despite Bulgaria now being a member of the EU. The same restriction also applies to Romania.
Do not attempt to come to the UK without researching this properly, or you will be very dissapointed.
Your lack of skill with the english language is likely to be big problem for you.
Vie imate nushda ot opitvate uchate da govorite angliski podobre!
Reply:May I suggest using your spell checker. You will not be taken seriously if you cannot produce a half decent resume. Good Luck in your endeavours.
Reply:may i suggest that you improve your english to improve your job chances.
competition for jobs is strong in england,
think about what you are doing carefully
xxx
Reply:the airport can tell you which plane you can **** off on
I am bulgarian and I heve wriths to work in u.k?
You don't have an automatic right to work in the UK. Work permits from Bulgaria and Romania are restricted, even though you are now part of the EU.
You must read the UK government information before you make any decision:
http://workingintheuk.gov.uk/working_in_...
In any event, there are no jobs in the UK.
Reply:i will write your question you re post it
cancel that i cant decipher it
Reply:As you are a member of the EU you have the right to move here and work here for as long as you wish. However as you are from Bulgaria you have to gain permission to work, this will involve proving that you have a job and that it will be benificial to the UK for you to work and you wont be taking a job from a british national.
You should contact your local council to enquire how you go about getting permission to work
Reply:Zdraveite! You have no automatic right to work in the UK, despite Bulgaria now being a member of the EU. The same restriction also applies to Romania.
Do not attempt to come to the UK without researching this properly, or you will be very dissapointed.
Your lack of skill with the english language is likely to be big problem for you.
Vie imate nushda ot opitvate uchate da govorite angliski podobre!
Reply:May I suggest using your spell checker. You will not be taken seriously if you cannot produce a half decent resume. Good Luck in your endeavours.
Reply:may i suggest that you improve your english to improve your job chances.
competition for jobs is strong in england,
think about what you are doing carefully
xxx
Reply:the airport can tell you which plane you can **** off on
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