Should I give this guy a chance?

He is one of my best friends and we have known each other for three eyars now.. At one point or another we have liked each other but nto at the same time.. Now hes single and im single and the other day he told me that when i was ready for a boyfriend to let him know... Should i give him a chance or not..I mean with his other girlfriends he has cheated on them(with me and other girls)...they argue all the time...I like him and i am the only person he doesnt fight with at all. But if it doesnt work out i dont want us to not talk ever again( he always has bad break-ups)

Should I give this guy a chance?
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Reply:It would be best to avoid the situation altogether for the same reasons you explained in your details. So what if you found somebody else.
Reply:wait a bit, see what happens. It all is in your heart. only if you feel it is right. I would say go for it, but then again, are your willing enough to put your friendship on the line. your friendship will grow stronger if you do give him a chance.
Reply:sure, and cheat on him
Reply:what will you regret more? losing a friend or not having him as a bf?
Reply:these people are cruel some of them give him a chance if you feel it in your heart and you can trust him enough not to cheat maybe he just didnt have the courage to break up beacuae he didnt feel a spark
Reply:It's a bad situation. Get away from the whole thing.
Reply:uh it best to stay away from that
Reply:dont even give hima chance girl you know your way better than that. if he'll cheat on one girl whats gonna stop him from cheating on you and dont say he wouldnt cause we all kniw he would! I think ya'll should just stay friends I know what your going through cause i went throught the exact thing its so hard but youll be makeing a good desision and im still friends with him too.
Reply:GIVE IT A GO GIRL
Reply:Why are you friends with someone who has used you to cheat on his girlfriends? Grow up and get a backbone. Not only should you not be with him, you should dump him as a friend!





NO CHANCE FOR THE CHEATER!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:IF YALL ARE BEST FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW EACH OTHER WELL. THAT IS THE START OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP-GETTING TO KNOW THE PERSON. I WOULD BE A LITTLE SCARED IF HES CHEATED ON ALL HIS OTHER GIRLS BUT THATS A CALL YOU HAVE TO MAKE. DO YOU THINK IT IS WORTH A TRY? AND AS FAR AS NOT WANTING TO BREAK UP AND NEVER SPEAK AGAIN, IF YALL ARE TRUE FRIENDS THEN YOU KNOW THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS, YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW THE LIMIT TO TAKE IT TO. BUT YOULL ALWAYS BE FRIENDS.
Reply:i think if it dont work out.......then u will lose that friendship you had .it will never be the same.but at the same time if you dont give him a chance you will never know...for me i was in about the same situation as u but it was a little different. but if i had to do all over i would have kept the friendship i wouldnt have crossed the line , because now we lost what we had in a friendship. it will never be the same.u just lose what u had.u have to also concider that if he cheated on is girlfriend with u and others..just how do u know he wont cheat on u too?
Reply:This one is tricky. You need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can, and you feel in your heart that he is the one for you, than go for it. You first need to tell him all of your concerns up front and tell him you value his friendship and that you want that more than anything. A good relationship starts with being friends and friends is what should be had during the whole relationship.
Reply:give him a chance and if it doesn't work out tell him that u still want to be friends but if he cheats stick it to him
Reply:no get away
Reply:no because when u brake up u could lose your best friend and you would be single or he could just cheat on u like he did with his other girl friends
Reply:yes of course because we r all human beings not computers
Reply:i say give him a chance... life is too short to be thinking about anybody else... he probably cheated because he wasn't satisfied with something in the relationship... but be cautious.. even though, he is one of your best friends it doesn't change the fact the he is the opposite sex... don't give yourself too easily and win his trust.. if you give your trust too early is bound to make you heart-broken... coming from a friendship is the best way to pursue an actual relationship... if your friendship with him starts to go bad... being in a relationship wouldn't be the best way?...just 1 chance ;) xoxoxo
Reply:no,...................never date ur best friend,.u dont want to ruin the friendship
Reply:dont date friends !!!!!
Reply:girl, like they say, give love a chance.


it may be difficult for you to start as you may fear a failed relationship. think positive. it may hurt but you emerged stronger. of course all this all if you enter the relationship.


but like you say, he is one of your best friends. so if you need emotional support there are others you can count. and if the relationship work out, lucky you! a best/boy friend!


a rare combination indeed. till then the choice is up to you.





cheers.
Reply:usually people dnt start a loving relation with friendship/but you being sexually with him while he was in a relation/and u dnt fight cause u have kept things real,without getting involved/if u both one try a relationship got 2commited before doing it and be specific of each others needs it might work/
Reply:give him a chance gal.


may u r the one he was actually looking for.


things may turn out to be good sweety.


if u trust him and u urself are very strong give the guy a chance.
Reply:give him a chance!
Reply:i think you can give it a shot... I have a boyfriend right now of 1 year and 1 month... we were very best friends and we were hanging out at a track meet and he asked me out. His breakups were always bad too but everything has been great and i was so scared on if it would ruin our friendship too. Just let him kno straight up that if it is going to ruin ur friendship you would rather be friends, but let him know you like him, but if it wont ruin it then go for it!! Good Luck!
Reply:it is really what you believer in your heart
Reply:belive,,,
Reply:go by what u think. if u really love him and think it can work then go for it but if not its not worth it bc there is nothing worse than a broken heart
Reply:too long but yeah do wat ever you want