Im Not Happy With my boyfriend?

hi im 20 eyars old and i have been in a relationship for a year an 3 months and i love my boyfriend very much, however we have been having some big issues. he cheated on me with this girl that works with him. i helped him get that job and he slept with this 90 pound girl. When i found out she told me everything. ever since then i have never looked at him the same way. I started talking to this guy a while when this happened but i dont want to rush into a relationship? i dont know what to do?! Im never happy and cant stand being alone, but i dont know what to do. i love my boyfriend and we have been trying to make it work for a while but im sooo confused. i love him so much but he keeps saying that im not doing things a girlfriend would do. like for example write poems, and bring him lunch to work, and stuff like that. and im starting to think im a bad girlfreind, however wen i went over this other guys house i was talking to i brang him food and cleaned his room, whats wrong with me?

Im Not Happy With my boyfriend?
baby girl, you need to know what makes you happy. first, you'll never trust your bf again, nor will you see him in the same light as when you first met him. it's obvious that you're not happy with him. so it's time to kick him to the curb. next, what's wrong with being single for awhile? there is nothing wrong with that. don't rush into another relationship, only when you're sure of it. you don't need a man by your side right now. right now, you just need to know what makes you happy. and life would be much easier if you know how to get it. and stop bringing food and clean this new guy room. it makes you look desperate.
Reply:This guy is definetly not for you.


Find a nice man who deserves your good and dedicated personality.
Reply:just leave him how dare he do that to you beacause you sound like a loving woman .. you should leavehim and i bet you will find someone for you!! good luck
Reply:get rid of him


you'll feel better when he's gone
Reply:Personally I don't think that anything is wrong with that. Of course your not going to do stuff like that all the time. I think that you guys may need a break. You don't need a guy to make you happy. I don't like be alone either. But it is nice not to have anybody to love and tak car of other than yourself. If you are unhappy with your boyfriend hn mayb h isn't right for you. You can love him all you want but it' still dosn't make you happier. And nd th nd you'll find out that it wasn't worth it. Then again you may find that his is mister right. however the fact that h cheated on you doesn't make him the best boyfriend. And as my friends and i would say that ain't a man that's an ***. I'm not trying to put your boyfriend down but is it really worth it? Cause more than likely if he chats on you once he is likely to do it again. Anyway sorry it as so long and good luck
Reply:you b/f is using you more like his maid than his lover.. dump him....
Reply:Then cut him a break and get on with your life. But realize that most guys cheat because there is just too much eye candy out there and these chicks don't care if the guy has a girlfriend or not.





The real problem is a girl who says she loves and takes good care of a guy who treats her like crap. That's like telling him, it's okay for him to do whatever he wants as long as he (eventually) comes home to you. If you had someone who treated you like a princess and you treated them like crap, would you change? Ask yourself, why am I putting up with this guy, not what's wrong with you. It's him, not you.
Reply:you need to dump your boyfriend and get with this other guy. you cleaned his room thats so cute! sorry. anyway, your boyfriend telling you that you "arent doing things a girlfriend should do" is just ludicrous. who has those kinds of ideas? about "things a girlfriend should do"? thats ******* dumb. not to mention he cheated. dump that ******!
Reply:go visit the doc
Reply:You think there's something wrong with you because you have a loser boyfriend who cheats on you? Get rid of the loser, he doesn't love you.
Reply:you should not continue the relationship, because if you choose yes , then you will get a big problem later. he will do that daily , and he may refuse you one day , so leave him and find another guy,
Reply:this is not a complicated question to answer......DUMP HIM!


It's as simple as that!


you will hurt and be upset for a while after but you are only 20 years old! trust me when i say that you'll find someone that respects you better than this idiot that you are dating at the moment.....





start having alittle more respect for yourself!
Reply:he totally sucks, not all girlfriends have to write poems, i wouldnt trust his butt after cheating on u, especially if he works with the b*tch - i believe in the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater".


If you cant look at him in the same way then you never will, get to know this new guy :)


Good luck
Reply:Your boyfriend is trying to make you his slave. I have a firm belief that it should be the man impressing the woman, not the other way around, never clean his room. And tell him if he wants lunch brought to him, he has to do something nice for you, you're not his maid. Get rid of him, he cheats on you and treats you like garbage, it's better being alone than being with him.
Reply:i think you're starting to like the other guy and you're really not happy with your boyfriend. you don't seem to trust him anymore and not interested in changing into the person he wants you to be. take time off alone and re-assess how you really feel... know what/who you really want.
Reply:You are being manipulated.


He cheated on you, get rid of him. Now.


Then be alone for a while to figure out who you are first...and wait for a good relationship to develop with someone who will not be dishonest with you.
Reply:once a cheater, always a cheater. leave him. he doesn't deserve you. don't rush into new relationship yet. take time to enjoy yourself. be single for a while. love yourself first.
Reply:Leave him and become a lesbian you will probably enjoy your life alot more.