Whats the next step after makingout with a female?

dont get the wrong impression and try to be in my position...im not concided or anything but so you get the picture...im a pretty good looking guy at 16 eyars of age...i can pretty much get any girl at my school im just to scared to do anything after i makeout with them like i dont know what the next step is...fondeling but like after that,,,fingering her? and how do you finger a girl anyways hehe...just confused and shy i guess.

Whats the next step after makingout with a female?
she gets pregnant. she tells you. you consider suicide. you talk about it with your dad. he slaps chit out of you. you wake up next morning, realizing how bad yo messed up. you find a job, you marry her, you have the baby..all you do is ***** , because you made a mistake. she gets tired of it. she files for divorce. you pay child supoort for years and years.





Now. Mr.Wise Dude. consider what I just wrote, Tell me just how really smart you are.








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That pretty much sums it up.
Reply:If things don`t gel at your age, I suggest you concentrate on graduating from high school and get your life in order before you knock somebody up and then find out that reality is HARSH.
Reply:How about casually asking her what she wants to do instead of assuming that she wants to be fingered or fondled? She might be just as shy as you are...I know you're young, but when I was 16, a guy would ask me what I wanted to do next. If I wanted to go home, eat lunch, watch TV, do whatever...they were cool with it. You should be too...that way, you can keep your non-conceited reputation around school, cutie-pie!





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Reply:Most girls will show you what they want. Start unbuttoning her shirt and see if she's okay with it. She'll help you from there.
Reply:You should do whatever she feels comfortable with. i recently learned that. Don't push her just because you think you can have any girl who walks by. I agree with the reality comment. Grow a penis, let your balls drop then love a woman. You might want to examine your ego. You might wake up in 20 years lonely, wondering what could of been had you fingered one more girl.
Reply:well actually don t think too much, follow your instincts and everything should come along





if you are too stressed, you need to learn how to be relaxed with her first, take a drink for example.
Reply:You are just 16 years of age and you have your whole life ahead of you to "make out". Concentrating on your studies is the best thing you can do as this point. Remember that AIDS does not discriminate on anyone regardless of race and it's very widespread. If she's into you like that, than she can wait until you both are married. Save yourself kiddo.
Reply:consentrate on ur study then makeout with a girl that would be better.