What to do about my fiances's ex's calling and texting him...?

I had been living with my fiance for 2 eyars almost. I moved out last month and we been working on our issues. Everything is going good except one area that bothers me. He talks to alot of women on yahoo and on the phone. Most I do not have a problem with. But a few I do. One woman is not his ex but they would talk on the phone in the mornings on his way to work (at least an hour), lunch breaks, and on the way home from work. Given he does not talk to her that much now but still does several times a week. The other one is an ex and she even talks to me sometimes but only because she is trying to snoop. She has always gone out of her way to come inbetween us. She would talk **** about us to eachother visa versa. She caused him alot of grief after they broke up. So basically she is nothing but trouble. Yet he still talks to her. I asked him tochange his cell number but he won't. Am I wrong for feeling this way? What do I do?

What to do about my fiances's ex's calling and texting him...?
Study this closely before marrying. I've never done anything against my own wife or marriage, but I know exactly what this is all about and it warrants a bit of fact gathering. My suggestion? Let him know you are very concerned about this and that you are uncomfortable about going through with any marriage as long as his conduct continues. Let him know that you are ready to forgive him for whatever communication he has had to this point, but not for future acts once an agreement is reached. If he actually slept with someone, that forgiveness is up to you! Good luck!
Reply:Tell him to block her calls...no if, ands or buts. He doesn't need to be talking to any girls if he is your fiance. If he is getting by with this now, what all is he going to get by with when you are married. These are issues that you need to settle before you get back together and if can't, you need to drop him and move on with your life. You deserve better.
Reply:You are not wrong. Advise him that all these hurts you and your feelings. Let him know that all these could break-up your relationship. If all else failed, that means he's still in-love with whoever, move on with your life. Leave him would be the best option.
Reply:Jenn,sorry to say so but to me he seems to be somewhat of a womaniser,you'd be better off without him.find someone that wants you and only you
Reply:its not wrong to feel that way because he is your man! you should talk to him and tell him how you really feel about the hobbies that he has! tell him that it is bothering you! you should also tell that trouble maker that she is a pain in the *** and should stop communicating with the both of you because she has no bussiness with the both of you!





lastly, you are insecure because of his actions! but its not your fault you are feeling like that! if he still doesnt hear you out then something's wrong with him
Reply:kill him then he'll be ex
Reply:I don't think this guy really cares about how you feel....is it even a good idea to have anything to do with him? why on earth is he chatting to other women for hours on end? girl, you need to tell him to stop or to leave.
Reply:You are not wrong at all for feeling the way you feel. He is giving you reasons not to trust him. Do you think he'll stop talking to these women if you asked him to? If not, then you need to make a decision. You either accept him the way he is or move on.


You want to be someone you don't need to change at all, otherwise, it's not going to work. It's not fair to want them to change for you nor is it fair for them to want to change you. You've got to be with someone you don't need to change at all.
Reply:He's not ready to settle down. He needs the attention from several women. One woman is not enough for him so let him go ahead and continue to spread himself around. Move on with your life.
Reply:i think you should have a nice long talk with your bf about why he has to talk to other women on phones. if i were you i won't marry him until i get a good reason for that because it is too risky to marry a guy who acts so suspicious. gd luck.
Reply:Make Him Your EX!
Reply:oh HELL no!
Reply:I'm going with the crowd...He needs to be your EX. And when he starts crying tell him your not 2nd place to anyone. Hes got so much going on he doesn't have time for you anyways.
Reply:Oh how I hate when that happens. It happens to us guys too, when our partner's off chatting off with some other guys. You don't really feel a sense of jealousy... just... irritation. I think it's a normal reaction to have, not wrong in any way. You can change his cell number, move out of the city and still he will be contacting the girls. Instead, sit down with him over a dinner. Chat with him to your heart's content. Tell him how you feel and what bothers you, that you feel unappreciated when he chats with some other girls, and wether there is any reasons for you to be suspicious. Then let him tell you what bothers him and listen to his explanation. Relationship is a two way street and you have to be open minded, too. Another suggestion, if he goes to chat with this ex again, approach your fiance, latch your arm to his, and lovingly pat his shoulder, or do some loving gestures- it would be vinditive, but it works, haha! Or you can try the option of calling her out for lunch, befriend her, know her intentions, so on so forth. Wish you luck with your relationship! If it's been 2 years now, I suppose it makes it worthwhile to hold on to this relationship.
Reply:Your not wrong in feeling this way it's natural, as 4 what to do you'll just have to trust him, time will tell everything if he really love's you he will stay commited and devoted to you.
Reply:Gurl - This man is a cheater... It is as simple as that. You may not want to hear it now but - it the gods honest truth.
Reply:It appears that your relationship is over and he's looking elsewhere. If he was committed to you he wouldn't talk to other women as you say he does. Your mistake too is talking to his ex-girlfriend. You're inviting her into the relationship just as much as he is. I'd like to suggest that you go on and end it, take a some time to yourself and start dating again. He is not for you.
Reply:men are supposed to talk with other women like that. thats what fiances are. were you born yesterday??? leave him. im sorry but this is a really stupid question. leave the space for people with real questions
Reply:ditch him. he doesn;t sound like no fiance'. He doesnt even know what it means. he should be alone forever.