what is a friend she made me feel like our friend ship means nothing to her i known her for 5 eyars and were best friends at least i thought but then she rather play a stupid game when we needed to talk about a kiss we had waht dose taht kiss mean? i got angry and i cursed at her she hurt me so much adn now shes not talking to me i appoligized and everything . i toeld her no mroe games lets be serious. i toled her that i was sorry taht i toled her i hated her. i toled her i said it out of anger and im only human to do so. i toled her i wanted her to have a reaction to call me. i asked her to call me but she didint. i toeld her i felt unimportant to her i toeld her to act like a friend like shes suppose too. i toled her taht we should try by working this out. i want to keep this friend ship i want to love her i want to beable to be with her. she toled me to forget about taht kiss we had 1 week ago. and now shes not talking to me i need help!!! can some one help me with this. im hurt...
What is a friend?
Im thinking your freaked out majorly and scared her off. Give her time and space the rest is up to her.
Reply:she obviosly doesn't want to be with you. i dont know why the kiss happened but it must have been something that shouldn't have happened or she thought it was going to feel different then it did. move on and leave her alone about it. she has been giving you your answer to the kiss....it wasn't what she wanted and she doesn't know what to say to you about it probably because she is afraid it is going to hurt you. or maybe she feels stupid, just give her some space...she clearly wnats it.
Reply:Step away! Be a man and except that she doesn't sees you that way....all u can gain here is here simple friendship, but only after a little while. U should stop pressure her now...you simply sound annoying right now for her :(
Reply:did you kiss her? or was it a kiss in a moment? to make one kiss more than a kiss after 5yrs friendship, has mostly likely scared her to death. Slow down, take a breath and get a hold of your self. at this point, who cares who kiss who. Now. Your friends, best friends and you had a kiss. so what. you need to see it for what it is A KISS. Once you find your way back to you. say , hey, I don't know what happen to me. I am sorry, I lost it. but I am back and move on from there. no more words, explanations needed do what the two of you do. pick up where you left off
Try to remember, WORDS HURT! doesn't matter out they came out. THEY HURT. THEY CANT BE TAKEN BACK. So just because one apologizes for saying , for this reason or that reason, doesn't mean, that the person has to be OK with it. So be careful with your words, they cause more damage, then you wanted or excepted, but those hurtful words weren't spoken TO
YOU. SO choose your words before saying them,
its A VERY HARD THING TO DO, but practice, it will make a difference in your life.
That I promise you
Reply:a friend is a person you can get along with and trust,
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